I came across a video on YouTube today.
Sounds ordinary enough…?
Or is there more to this email ?
What’s the…underlying reason that caused me to sit down and write to you today…
Well, it’s like this…
For a long time I have avoided being political. ( mainly as a result of being well and truly stomped on by the system in the past whenever I was saying stuff they didn’t like.)
More details later.
( maybe…!)
Just so you know, one of my deepest beliefs and values is that we MUST learn to cooperate better if we are to survive as a species.
Please note the use of the word survive here. And NO this is not just some impassioned plea to save the whales or any other single species.
This goes much deeper.
It’s all about the deep psychological shifts that humankind needs to make to get to the next level.
We have a behaviour problem here on planet Earth.
And I hate to be the one to tell you but it’s also a choice problem.
As a species and as individuals, both you and me chose a behaviour that was damaging to our home. Our planet.
And for a while we chose to ignore that because we were told that government and the financial system has the answers.
And we believed them.
BUT the truth is…
Our current behaviour is not useful for the long term sustainability of life.
Human life on planet earth is an option.
That’s all it is. An option.
You are an evolutionary choice…
That’s tough to consider but I believe it’s true nonetheless.
You are at a decision point in your life.
We all are.
Nature doesn’t care for your future here any more than it cared for the future of T Rex.
The difference between you and T Rex
is that you have a brain that’s capable of creating choice AND you are still here.
All of the above are just BELIEFS. Other peoples beliefs… about what is right for you. And you do not have to accept their beliefs.
I mean it positively flies in the face of what’s written in the Constitution. You have choice about what you will believe. What you can believe. Yeah, I know it may sound difficult . But that’s just another belief. Another idea that YOU have about… taking control of your own thoughts. Taking control of your life and destiny. Taking control of your environment But if Tony Robbins can do it then so can you! If I can do it, so can you ! Doesn’t mean you have to be a total master at it straight away. It just means that you’re willing to believe it’s posssible to change what you believe. If you are one of the few who don’t think it’s possible to change what you believe, from whatever you currently hold in your mind to something else, please do not read any further. Instead consider… what causes you to have such a limiting view. Who or what told you to believe that you are powerless over your own mind and where THAT belief came from for them. You can always hit the back button / unsubscribe. I will be upset, knowing that yet another human being just gave up on possibility, themself and the whole future of the planet. The rest of us will ask ourselves the question “Is there something more we can do to assist ?” If you truly believe you are incapable of changing that one tiny belief don’t even bother to get out of bed tomorrow. Why waste energy ? Speaking of which, for those of you who are still here with me. ..What does get you out of bed ? What is the motivator for you that shifts you from that warmth and comfort to whatever you do when you get up.? Once you are aware of that then you have tapped into the most powerful motivation on the planet. So, spend some time really getting in touch with WHY you do what you do. I have considered for some time how do we transition from where we are now to where we need to be as a species. As part of our ecosystem. We are after all, at a very basic level, just another item in the intricate biological soup that makes up life on this planet. You of course are also infinite possibility in evolutionary motion. You may be curious about what this all has to do with communication. You can also be curious about How you can create the levels of cooperation needed to achieve survival. Why did I just mentioned survival again? Did you ever consider that perhaps, getting cooperation is the whole reason that you communicate in the first place ? I mean why else did we go to all that troube of creating and refining language if not to get better cooperation with others ? We are a social species and social implies cooperation and to do that we have to communicate clearly. Think about it ! If you don’t want or need something you don’t speak or wave or do anything else to communicate with others. Even a smile can fulfill the need to comfort or reassure another person (or yourself.) So while you’re thinking about what moves you from your bed every day I’d also invite you to really consider what results you want to get from communicating. Consider also if your communication is getting you the results that you really really want. The environment you want. Internally and externally. And if the answer is YES then
Watch…
If on the other hand the answer is NO then
Watch…
And by the time you have completed watching this you will know why I want you to be motivated. Why you need to be motivated. And most important of all. Why you need to believe that change is possible….
The tools for creating the necessary upgrades in awareness are about to come out of the lab here…
Sign up for our newsletter to discover more about how you can be part of the change.
I came across a video on YouTube today.
Sounds ordinary enough…?
Or is there more to this email ?
What’s the…underlying reason that caused me to sit down and write to you today…
Well, it’s like this…
For a long time I have avoided being political. ( mainly as a result of being well and truly stomped on by the system in the past whenever I was saying stuff they didn’t like.)
More details later.
( maybe…!)
Just so you know, one of my deepest beliefs and values is that we MUST learn to cooperate better if we are to survive as a species.
Please note the use of the word survive here. And NO this is not just some impassioned plea to save the whales or any other single species.
This goes much deeper.
It’s all about the deep psychological shifts that humankind needs to make to get to the next level.
We have a behaviour problem here on planet Earth.
And I hate to be the one to tell you but it’s also a choice problem.
As a species and as individuals, both you and me chose a behaviour that was damaging to our home. Our planet.
And for a while we chose to ignore that because we were told that government and the financial system has the answers.
And we believed them.
BUT the truth is…
Our current behaviour is not useful for the long term sustainability of life.
Human life on planet earth is an option.
That’s all it is. An option.
You are an evolutionary choice…
That’s tough to consider but I believe it’s true nonetheless.
You are at a decision point in your life.
We all are.
Nature doesn’t care for your future here any more than it cared for the future of T Rex.
The difference between you and T Rex
is that you have a brain that’s capable of creating choice AND you are still here.
All of the above are just BELIEFS. Other peoples beliefs… about what is right for you. And you do not have to accept their beliefs.
I mean it positively flies in the face of what’s written in the Constitution. You have choice about what you will believe. What you can believe. Yeah, I know it may sound difficult . But that’s just another belief. Another idea that YOU have about… taking control of your own thoughts. Taking control of your life and destiny. Taking control of your environment But if Tony Robbins can do it then so can you! If I can do it, so can you ! Doesn’t mean you have to be a total master at it straight away. It just means that you’re willing to believe it’s posssible to change what you believe. If you are one of the few who don’t think it’s possible to change what you believe, from whatever you currently hold in your mind to something else, please do not read any further. Instead consider… what causes you to have such a limiting view. Who or what told you to believe that you are powerless over your own mind and where THAT belief came from for them. You can always hit the back button / unsubscribe. I will be upset, knowing that yet another human being just gave up on possibility, themself and the whole future of the planet. The rest of us will ask ourselves the question “Is there something more we can do to assist ?” If you truly believe you are incapable of changing that one tiny belief don’t even bother to get out of bed tomorrow. Why waste energy ? Speaking of which, for those of you who are still here with me. ..What does get you out of bed ? What is the motivator for you that shifts you from that warmth and comfort to whatever you do when you get up.? Once you are aware of that then you have tapped into the most powerful motivation on the planet. So, spend some time really getting in touch with WHY you do what you do. I have considered for some time how do we transition from where we are now to where we need to be as a species. As part of our ecosystem. We are after all, at a very basic level, just another item in the intricate biological soup that makes up life on this planet. You of course are also infinite possibility in evolutionary motion. You may be curious about what this all has to do with communication. You can also be curious about How you can create the levels of cooperation needed to achieve survival. Why did I just mentioned survival again? Did you ever consider that perhaps, getting cooperation is the whole reason that you communicate in the first place ? I mean why else did we go to all that troube of creating and refining language if not to get better cooperation with others ? We are a social species and social implies cooperation and to do that we have to communicate clearly. Think about it ! If you don’t want or need something you don’t speak or wave or do anything else to communicate with others. Even a smile can fulfill the need to comfort or reassure another person (or yourself.) So while you’re thinking about what moves you from your bed every day I’d also invite you to really consider what results you want to get from communicating. Consider also if your communication is getting you the results that you really really want. The environment you want. Internally and externally. And if the answer is YES then
Watch…
If on the other hand the answer is NO then
Watch…
And by the time you have completed watching this you will know why I want you to be motivated. Why you need to be motivated. And most important of all. Why you need to believe that change is possible….
The tools for creating the necessary upgrades in awareness are about to come out of the lab here…
Sign up for our newsletter to discover more about how you can be part of the change.
Please suggest me some useful tips. Please advise how can i have the fluency in English
Get into the habit of reading books loud, this will help you increase the pronunciation and vocabulary skill.
Practice in front of mirror,
Just put your mind at ease, your main aim is communication, so try to say what you are thinking.
Use short sentences, simple words and good pauses.
You will do fine
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Relationship Truths
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We are attracted to people for many reasons. When they seem to appreciate us with gifts and show intimacy we feel loved and important. Rarely do we think about relationship truths but when our relationships fail, we tend to regret because of ignorance. There are relationship truths that will remain unchanged as we relate with others and this requires you to avoid acting ‘blindly’ hence causing mistakes.
As you relate you should know the other partner’s character, personality, values and reliability. Our goals are different and are sometimes guided by our beliefs. You should have common beliefs in relationship. When there are conflicting beliefs and you cannot cope with their personality, then you lack a good foundation for your relationship. The truth in such cases is that very few relationships survive and if they do they face a lot of challenges.
Sometimes when you are heartbroken, it is hard to go through it alone and you may feel attracted to your ex. Your childhood orientation determines how you handle your interactions. You can only learn this and more from journals that publish articles on relationship truths. Scholars state that when daughters improve their relationship with their mothers, they are able to relate better intimately with their partners.
Differences will always arise but the way you handle them matters a lot. The truth is, when there is no communication fights are plenty and disrespect prevails. There is a quick guide entitled ‘Learn To Fight Fair’ help card that is available for sale and can assist you in conflict resolution. You can share it with your spouse, family or friends and you can share ideas. A healthy relationship involves working as a team, facing reality and communicating effectively. All the best as you relate.
Esther Wangui Muhia
http://www.articlesbase.com/psychology-articles/relationship-truths-722280.html
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How to win your ex love back for a making up relationship because you have missed your love so terribly?
So you want to win back your ex’s heart and make things right this time around. You know you have it in you and this relationship is worth fighting for. Whether your ex gave you some lame excuse or flat out said they found someone younger and cuter to take your place, with the steps below you have a good chance of winning them back. Provided you do everything and don’t take shortcuts. Good luck and I wish you well.
Here’s my tips on how to win your ex back:
Tip #1 “Tell Them One Last Time” Before doing what everyone tells you to do and cut off all forms of communication, tell them one last time you want to make this relationship work. Your last plea or argument is the final case you make to win your ex back. Your last talk with them MUST consist of: Preparation: you wouldn’t show up to a job interview with unironed clothes and mud-covered shoes (I hope) and you also wouldn’t go in without at least some idea of what you’re going to say. Treat your last talk with your ex like a job interview. You’ve got one shot and one shot only at this. Make it impressionable and make it good.
(NO CRYING, BEGGING, PLEAING, DESPARATE ACTS OF LOVE)
Tip #2 “When the Curtain Closes, the Shows Over”
It’s magic time! Yep that’s right, it’s time to vanish into thin air never to be heard or seen again by your ex. Think of yourself like a magician. You’re making yourself disappear but it’s all within your control and you can reappear whenever you feel like it. Only make it at least a 21 day disappearing act. It will pay off trust me.
Tip #3 “Even Magicians Have To Pee”
Silly title I know, I just couldn’t think of anything. What it means is once you start the strict no contact rule, don’t just cower away into a corner and cry yourself into an alcoholic depression. This is the time to rediscover yourself, your likes, dislikes, your hobbies, your passions! Find fulfilling activities to take up your day and remember your life goals again. These are the things that should make you motivated and feeling good in the morning. Even if you’re feeling crap and missing your ex terribly, thinking of your personal development goals and where you want to be in 10 years should be an uplifting and motivating thing!
If you find yourself lost as at this point, head on over to Steve Pavilina’s Blog and get inspired.
Tip #4 “Do Something for Someone Else”
You know what makes everyone feel good? It’s when you do something purely for someone else. Give back to your community. Give a friend a gift or better yet MAKE them a gift. Send a card to your long distance relatives. Think of something that’s outside of your own problems and yourself. You will feel better and you’ll also make someone else feel good too.
Tip #5 “Ignore the Ex”
You might find that some Exes just won’t go away no matter how hard you try. If you’re handling no contact well you just might find them calling you up and telling you they miss you. DON’T FALL FOR IT. They don’t want you back but they don’t want you NOT to want them back either. Funny isn’t it. In some cases your ex might be the more mature kind and actually respect your silence. Others are not so empathetic. Be nice and polite, but keep your conversations brief and absent of relationship and emotion talk.
Tip #6 “The Yo-Yo Ex”
One minute it’s “I love you and miss you”, the next it’s “….” In other words, the silent treatment. Acting warm and cold is the game of choice by immature and confused exes. Be strong and don’t accept it unless they give you a definite answer they want to get back together.
Tip #7 “The Silent Ex”
You don’t hear a peak from your ex after 21 days or perhaps even 80 days. Some Exes remain annoyingly dormant until you do something to shake them awake. Its ok, it doesn’t mean they’ve forgotten about you or they suddenly got married to another guy on the internet. A silent ex means: a). they’ve moved on and they want you to move on too. b). they’re still not over the break up and want to punish you. Either way, it’s time to re-appear back in their life and see how they react to the new and improved you.
Tip #8 “Reappearing Magic Trick!” The magic trick never gets old. It’s time to combine all your best qualities into one awesome package and come out with the big guns. The key is NOT to overwhelm them with this new you and rub it in their faces. It’s time to play Mr or Mrs Mysterious Ex and see if they take the bait. Anyone with eyes and ears will not be able to resist when curiosity bites so make them curious about your new life and the new improved you.
Let them chase you and it doesn’t hurt to suggest you might be out of their league now.
Tip #9 “Reunion?”
If your ex wants to get back together, before you start celebrating too soon, have a nice good look at yourself and then have a nice good look at them. How does your life compare to theirs now? Does your value and goals line up? Is there even someone else that might fit into their role better? Who knows you might end up dumping them if you make a haste decision at this point.
Tip #10 “Congratulations You Have WON Your Ex Back!”
Winning your ex back might seem like the best and only option for you at this moment but things change. People change and YOU change. Never-the-less winning them back might be a sign that perhaps you never really lost them after all. I wish you the best of luck in your quest to win your ex back. Relationships that fail often develop this habit of breaking up and making up. If you’re smart though and really listen and learn from your mistakes, you can both come out stronger and happier individuals. Get the fast and proven method used by 1000s to get your ex back today! Get Your Ex Back Now!
Indeed, life is short. Don’t let another day go by without taking a chance on happiness. You will never know until you try, so remember to make a move today. It can change or affect the rest of your life, therefore, at the very least, you can try to come out something for your ex love partner during your weekend plans. With a little practice, perseverance and patience, I believe that your relationship could be enhanced with the tips that I have shared earlier. If you have faced any problems with your loved ones, do not hesitate to visit this piece of article again. I really have a strong belief that if you can understand what I have explained and applied what you have learnt from this piece of article, your problems can be eventually solved and your making up relationship can become more stable and stronger. I wish all the best for your making up relationship with your partner. Do always remember to spread word of mouth to your fellow friends for supporting the decision of having making up than breaking up.
<a href=” http://hubpages.com/hub/howshouldiwoomyexback” target=”_blank”>Should I get back together with my ex</a>?
Watch a video that shows you exactly what you must NEVER do, what you should do to get your ex back and why at http://www.squidoo.com/how_can_i_retrieve_my_ex_lover_back
You will also learn how to reverse the situation if you have already done those things that should NEVER be done.
dhlim88
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Mobile phones are one of the primary needs in today’s busy life. The requirement is to get in touch with near and dear ones from any corner of the world. The simple landline phones, which were used earlier were replaced by mobiles phones that bring a revolution in the world of communication. Initially these phones were costly and only preferred by rich people. But with the decreasing price, these phones are now accessible to every class of society. In a very short span of time, the mobile market has grown up and now became a fairly big market.
Every class of people has different requirements and keeping those requirements in mind the mobile manufacturing companies have launched various handsets. These handsets are integrated with various features, for which the users will get more option to choose their phone according to their requirement. With the increasing demand and advancement of technology, these handsets have become more than just a communication gadget. Now these phones fulfil all basic communication needs as well as come as advanced phones which satisfy the professionals.
The attractive deals and mobile phone offers have made it more popular among the users. These deals are offered by online retailers or network providers. Many network provider along with mobile manufacturing companies offer lucrative deals to customers. The network providers offer different handsets along with their deals. The mobile phone deals play a vital role in the UK market as they involve cost effective offers according to the convenience. Those deals may include free calling minutes, free text messages, discounted talk time to a particular destination and many more. Some of them even offer free gifts with mobile phones. So mobile phones are convenient in it own manner. The customer is provided complete freedom to choose their own handset under these deals.
Many of the network providers have tied up with mobile manufacturers to mesmerise more customers, such as Orange, O2, T-mobile, Three, Virgin and Vodafone. These companies even have launched their own handsets with their attractive deals. So, user gets many more reasons to opt for those deals and definitely these deals are beneficial to users.
These mobile phone offers come with mesmerising gifts, such as gaming consoles, which attracts the customer most. The gaming consoles may include the most popular gaming consoles, such as Sony PSP, XBOX 360 and Nintendo. Also the free gifts offered by the retailers can be Xbox, laptops, LCD TV, Apple iPod, mobile phone accessories and so on. Their exclusive mobile phone offers tempt the users and incite them to buy any such handset along with the deal. These phones come with preloaded network connection, apart from such SIM only deals, the users can go for SIM free handsets if they do not wish to go for any such deals.
The mobile phone offers are really playing a great role in selling more mobile phones. In fact, the primary reason behind the popularity of mobile phones among all class of society is cost effective deals and offers, provided by the Online retailers. There are various online retailers where you can find such deals which will help you to save your precious money. Also you can compare those deals which suits you the best at your home comfort.
David Boon
http://www.articlesbase.com/cell-phones-articles/avail-a-cost-effective-way-to-reduce-mobile-phone-bill-with-mobile-phone-offers-755768.html
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There are times when good relationships must come to an end. You did everything you can do and the situation is just not going to recover. Ending relationships are hard to do, but they are a fact of life. On the other hand, there are times when good relationships come to an end prematurely. These are the truly unfortunate instances.
What makes a relationship come to an end prematurely? Typically, two loving and mostly happy couples let little things get between them and they’re just not familiar with how to resolve these things.
If you find you’re part of a relationship that is heading toward an end, ask yourself the following questions:
1) Have you both fully discussed the issues that are tearing you both apart?
I’m not talking about some basic chit-chat. I’m talking about sitting down privately and focusing on what the issues are, and working together to try and find a workable solution for both of you.
2) Are you still in love with your partner?
If you’re not in love, you’re not in love. However, you should know that every relationship has its good moments and its not-so-great moments. Simply because you’ve had some bad times doesn’t necessarily mean you stop loving one another. It means you need to start communicating more.
3) Does your partner tend (or try to tend) to your physical and emotional needs?
If not, guess what? You’re probably in a normal relationship. It’s unfortunate, but for most couples the fire that was once there simply fades to a certain degree over time. Again, communication is the key to any successful relationship and it will do wonders for your physical and emotional needs as well.
Now, if you answered yes to number 1, and you truly believe it, then that’s a bad sign. Because it indicates that you both know what really bothers the other person and neither of you were satisfied with your team effort on how to resolve it. However, there is still hope, especially if you’re still in love with your partner. You can always find great help on how to give-and-take from one another. I’ll talk more about that in a moment.
If you answered no to number 2, then it’s probably over, sadly. A relationship needs love to survive, happily.
If you answered no to number 3, then it’s probably time that you and your partner got some relationship help. Don’t fear, even the closest relationships need some help from time to time. The sad part is when they don’t take it.
As long as you love your partner, and your partner loves you, then you both owe it to each other to seek a helping hand from someone that specializes in bringing couples together and finding common ground.
I was in this same situation myself. In fact, my partner left me. After a few months of devastation and searching on the Internet for a reason for her leaving, I found some outstanding techniques to really take our relationship to the next level. I won her back, and now we’re set to get married. You can certainly benefit from these techniques as well.
<a href=”http://www.almostlosther.com”>How I won my partner back</a> and found happiness.
Mark Preston
http://www.articlesbase.com/breakup-articles/questions-to-ask-before-ending-a-relationship-to-avoid-regret-719446.html
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How to Write an Effective Sales Letter
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Communication is the most important thing in today’s business. In fact, without communication, business cannot prosper. In addition, sales letter is one of the most important tools of communication with your clients. So writing a profitable sales letter is very vital.
Writing a productive sales letter is a tricky job. We read number of sales letter daily but when it comes to writing it ourselves, we are at a loss! We have to include so many things in the letter, but we lack the knowledge of how to demonstrate them in the letter, how to start, how to end, which of them to be mentioned first and which of them to be mentioned later.
However, writing an effective sales letter is not that a difficult job if we keep in mind certain things while writing.
Structuring the letter
The most important technique of writing a sales letter is the structure of the letter. Your letter should be written in such a structure that right in the beginning it is able to drive in the attention of the reader. It should boost his interest by giving him something to think about it. Then once the interest is built, it should build in the desire for your services or products in them and finally you want them to act on their desire and so your letter should provide the information of how can they do so by giving in the information of contact.
Simple yet professional
The next thing, which is important, is the language. Your sales letter should be written in a language, which is formal as that will make your letter sound professional but keep a check that the language does not become too formal or harsh, as that sounds a little negative and may affect the relation with your prospective customers.
Originality should be maintained
Then, the letter should be original and not a copy of some other letter of other company. Your clients must be receiving plenty of letters daily, so the only way to keep at par with the other companies is that your content should be original.
Short and compact letters
Your letter should not be lengthy. It should be short, crisp and to the point. Time is an important factor in today’s business. Your clients do not have much time to spend on your letter, as they need to go through many letters daily. Therefore, if your letter were lengthy, then they would loose interest in it after sometime and may leave it unfinished.
Sustaining the objective of the letter
Moreover, the most important thing, while writing does not forget the objective of the letter. Most of that and us while writing get caught up so much with the rest of the requirement that we forget the main objective of writing the letter are to sell our product or service.
Confidence
Sell your product or service hard and with confidence in the letter. Clutch your products or services’ best benefits in the letter and write them in small bulleted headlines. This will help in leaving a long lasting impression.
Understanding the client
Write your letter from your customers’ or your clients’ perspective. Keep yourself in their shoes and feel what they will feel when reading your letter. In this way, you will be able to write a letter, which will deliver exactly what your customers want.
If these small yet important things are kept in mind while writing a sales letter, you can write a million dollar letter for your company. Remember, an effective sales letter is one of the keys for successful business.
Aakash Shah
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