Long distance relationship communication?
ByI am currently in a long distance relationship, and a lot of the communication is obviously done over the computer or the phone… so in the middle of the conversation its just like the conversation dies. (this doesnt happen in person) I have nothing to say, and nor does he. Because we are so far apart, I think it’s really important to communicate… but what do we talk about when its just one of those dot dot dot moments?
man i hate this online talking relationship business.
expect a lot of stress and agony with this msn online talk.
you shouldn’t worry too much though, it doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing. At the end of the day as long as your still together and talking it doesn’t matter..
Why don’t you send some things through the post? That would add to the excitment. Like surprises, gifts etc… even if it’s something little, it doesn’t matter because it’s something to think about and exciting! I do this sometimes. just send each other things so when your both online next you can talk about the stuff you recieved in the post amongst other general things you talk to oneanother about.
Phone eachother too..
Just don’t thing too much about this online talk business. it can be stressful but try not to read too much into it.. it’s very different than talking in person. remember people can act a lot different when talking online than in person. They are not as talkative online..
don’t worry. just chillax.
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January 31st, 2009 at 11:11 am
I am also in a long distance relationship. We might have a few seconds where nothing is said, and I am completely okay with this. When we are in person, we have even more time where nothing is said. It’s still all good.
Well really I just want to rip his clothes off, so who cares if we are talking.
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January 31st, 2009 at 11:46 am
Silence isn’t always a bad thing. It may just mean you’re comfortable with each other. It’s really tough to communicate when you can’t see the person, you lose all the visual commnication, like body language.
Don’t feel badly about it. You can even try a web cam, that may help. And my husband is gone for 2 weeks at a time, and sometimes our IM or phone conversations are only a couple of minutes long…just an “I love you and thinking about you” note. There’s nothing wrong with that.
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January 31st, 2009 at 12:31 pm
1st of all, what are you doing in a Long distance relationship?
They just don’t work. They’re not the same as in person relationship where you can actually see the person,and keep conversations going non-stop. But its your choice. I just personally don’t think they’re the best choice. You never really know what the other person is doing like they say they are. But just talk about you guys. Talk about if anything more is going to happen between the two of you, and what he thinks of you. Stuff like that.
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January 31st, 2009 at 1:16 pm
man i hate this online talking relationship business.
expect a lot of stress and agony with this msn online talk.
you shouldn’t worry too much though, it doesn’t mean it’s a bad thing. At the end of the day as long as your still together and talking it doesn’t matter..
Why don’t you send some things through the post? That would add to the excitment. Like surprises, gifts etc… even if it’s something little, it doesn’t matter because it’s something to think about and exciting! I do this sometimes. just send each other things so when your both online next you can talk about the stuff you recieved in the post amongst other general things you talk to oneanother about.
Phone eachother too..
Just don’t thing too much about this online talk business. it can be stressful but try not to read too much into it.. it’s very different than talking in person. remember people can act a lot different when talking online than in person. They are not as talkative online..
don’t worry. just chillax.
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